[?] Honesty & Questionability [?]

Now everyone values honesty and in fact everyone wants it. However there is a cruel fact to this, no one in spite of wanting honesty and hating having being lied to is honest, or completely honest anyway. I myself prefer to be honest at all times that I can but there are times I admit I have to lie or prefer to shroud the truth in a sheet of lies, because it makes things easier to handle. This isn't something I'm proud to admit but it's the truth, and the truth is something honesty is based on, the truth and for me to be honest I must admit to my own dishonesty, haha twisted irony but yeah it's the truth :P


In all this, honesty is always the best way to go because it removes regret, that constant voice shouting "what if?" in the back of your head it does get irritating to carry that voice around for a long time. Honesty remains the best because even when questionable it removes doubt. There are occasions where honesty is never the first thing practiced but that is to test ones trust, to see if the person is trustworthy enough to obtain the truth. I for one know a lot of instances where honesty and trustworthyness are tested and these are tested via question-ability.

To be questioned doesn't hurt, it reveals that there is a sign of interest and that there is mystery behind you yet to be discovered, however it isn't always nice to be questioned all the time, like especially when you're telling the truth. When you're telling the truth you're removing the chance for the truth to be discovered by other means and therefore eliminating doubt about your trustworthiness, but if you're lieing and they find out, well you've made a fuck up. But just because someone lied doesn't mean all bad, question the reason behind the lie, a lot of the times it's for a very valid reason or better yet a wonderful reason. Now I'm not saying lieing is good, I'm saying if they had to resort to it there's a reason behind it than.

Classic example is when someone is attracted to another person, they play a game to test them, assessing their trust, honesty, and overall question-ability to see if they can be with them. If they lie to them it's because they might like them and are shy, or be hurtful in spite of them wanting the opposite. But there is a better route, honesty and if you are honest than it removes the possibility of them being hurt by your display of dishonesty or them misunderstanding the reason behind your lie or lies if there's more than one. Which is the cause of some Relationship mishaps.

Anyway to be honest we all have to destroy that wall of questionability or find the door that lets us through towards the honesty and trust, and with that I give you the reason why I made this post, the theme inspired this picture I made, enjoy :)