Thursday, September 10, 2009

Relationships & New Beginnings :)

Well how to start...At this time I just had a relationship that ended for the wrong reasons but also in a sense the right reasons...

Lasted for around month and a bit all together, but was most wonderful time might i add :)
You have the usual in almost every relationship, guy finds girl, girl finds guy funny, guy becomes more interested in girl, than it moves on into a couple relationship and love is in the air. You have you're first argument, you both feel bad, make up, makes you both closer. Stuff like that its fun and good, the bad and good must exist in a relationship otherwise it isn't a relationship, its just a dream, and dreams are over once you wake up...

The one thing that can rip apart a relationship is fate, and its partner in crime is time, together they can destroy anything, even a bond as strong as love. If fate has it its not the right time, than guess what, its not the right time and whatever happens the relationship is either torn or on its last thread. But it's not all bad, because time is also the cure for your pain when a relationship is over.

No matter what one thing every couple has to know is that a relationship takes a lot of work, focus, dedication, patience, and time...Your heart and mind must be focused on the relationship and both people in the relationship must have the same feeling and focus, without it it withers away and breaks, leaving two people in time of confusion and regret.

This is when new beginnings kicks in, and is a time to look forward to :)
New beginning means you can go on with your life and learn from the lessons of your unfortunate relationship knowing you've gained wisdom and experience millions of millions of people would envy to know before experiencing, so be glad about the fact the first time is the worst since its a new thing for you. Now as for the new beginning, look forward dont look back, don't have regrets, think that it was a great relationship, but imagine when you find the right one, how would that feel?? So keep looking forward and be happy that there's always someone out there just be patient and keep searching :)

Those that are in a relationship, stop playing games, try and be more honest and cherish the time you have, because you honestly have no defense for fate and time, so go through with no regrets and complete honesty, it'll help not only you but also your partner :)

As for those with experience in break ups or not just hope your happy and still looking, don't let a bad experience bring you to a stop, always better out there, and only go for the best :)

(By The Way: Sorry for long post but if you didn't catch it I just ended a relationship with a gurl I saw as my world, but time to move on =D)

1 comment:

  1. aye yo that post was deep man, respect dude
    its 2U rez

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